
My Man
We knew each other 8 years back.
From Nanyang Polytechnic.
We sat far from each other.
Our eyes weren’t with each other at that time.
Until year 3 when we started to spend more time together due to school projects.
And after a few dates, we got together.
Honeymoon period was good, sweet and definitely memorable.
We had our share of arguments, kiss and made up in the end. However we were separated from each other for a year and back to each other arms after that.
The journey wasn't as smooth.
" Yi lu zhou lai zhen de heng bu rong yi"Everything happens for a reason I guess.

Now we are holding each other hand not for a relationship but for a family.
A lifelong journey.
We fall in love, out of love, fight for love, broke the trust and then he held on me and told me he wanted me as his wife.
He said he wants everything that belongs to him to be mine.
My man is more of a quiet man. Maybe not so when he is with his friends.
But I must say he changed a lot over the years.
From a person who just gives “ar, yes, and no” replies to my questions to now someone whom expresses more and ask more questions.
Although sometimes I still have to nudge him for more replies and for more replies..
Sometimes he will choose to give no response, no reactions, no expressions...
It does give a feeling as if he is not listening.
But he’s listening and after some times he will “follow-up” on the issue.
He is a gamer, no doubt he dont want to admit. He said he had played lesser already but hmm....where got lor..
At Times….
Ok I admit.
Sometimes I get upset wondering why this guy can’t just reply my sms and why cant he reply my msn.
Why he is at times insensitive.
Why he spent so much time at his computer and not that much time with me.
Why his replies are always ok la, don't care la.
Blar Blar Blar…
He can be an attentive and caring guy depending on whether he wants to make the effort to do it.
Trust between us was broken several times.
I hope we can work together to build back what was broken.
So now he proposed and it came as a surprise.
I don't really know what step to do or what to prepare.
Started off with a simple notebook to jot down the information I researched, the design of clothes, the function hall etc.